The essence
Focusing is a gentle yet profound practice of listening to our body, to
our inner voice. It gets beneath our usual stories and self analysis to
a place that knows its own way to healing and wholeness. Once we learn
to listen within - we might untangle old
emotional issues, we might come to deeply understand and change a
limiting habit. We might find clarity about an important
decision. Focusing can help us to contact what we most deeply
value and know. It is a way of touching our own inner wisdom.
The practice
Focusing can be practiced alone or with a Focusing partner -
someone
who simply listens to you, without advice or interpretation. The role
of Listening in Focusing is a rewarding practice in itself that will
help us in our everyday lives.
Its uses
Focusing can help you to:
Feel more present to yourself and others,
Untangle life long issues,
Understand your emotions,
Make clearer decisions,
Deepen therapy or bodywork,
Ground your meditation and spiritual practice,
Trust your inner wisdom or intuition
As a practice, Focusing can be mixed with many other disciplnes and practices, such as counselling or bodywork. The best way to find out more is to try it for yourself.
Origins
Focusing was developed by Eugene Gendlin
and
his then colleague, Carl Rogers when they were investigating how and
why therapy
works. What they discovered was that the main factor in the
patient’s success in therapy was not the therapist or the
type of
therapy but the clients own relationship with their inner experience.
If, in the session the client paused in their speech, searched within
for the right words, fumbled around for an image, for a sense of
rightness to what they said or heard… then the therapy was a
success.
You can learn through workshops, courses and retreats or try some individual sessions. Please download a new 2009 full information sheet, FAQ's and workshop programme (PDF).
What is split off, not felt, remains the
same. When
it is felt, it changes. Most people don't know this. They think that by
not permitting the feeling of their negative ways they make themselves
good. On the contrary, that keeps these negatives static, the same from
year to year. A few moments of feeling it in your body allows it to
change. If there is in you something bad or sick or unsound, let it
inwardly be, and breathe. That's the only way it can evolve and change
into the form it needs.
Eugene
Gendlin